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I'd like this Blog to
address what I believe are some really relevant issues and questions in our lives. Questions like
our purpose; Why are we here in the first place? Toward what end? What is happiness? What is it that we value?
Since I am first and foremost a storyteller, sometimes, I'll simply tell a story and encourage
readers to think about the meaning the story has for them.
Finally, I'd like everyone who visits LifeStylings
to leave with something positive and hopefully, some measure of added insight into some of the issues that
impact our lives. I
think it is important to acknowledge that at the end of the day, we're all in this thing called 'life' together. Perhaps,
we can work through some of these issues TOGETHER.
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phenomenon known as the veil/birth caul, via the Guest Book.
BLOG POSTS BY
TITLE
Leaving Something Behind; 08/10/10
The Answer to Fear 04/14/10; Hatred Often Equals Just Plain Old Fear
03/29/10; Happy 2010! 01/07/10; Testifying about
The Lord's Blessings 08/13/09; Goodbye Michael 05/26/09;
The Adam Lambert and Chris Allen Debaucle 05/28/09; We're All In This Together
05/15/09; Crazy on Self-Esteem 03/29/09; Oprah's
Domestic Violence Show 03/19/09; Rihanna & Chris Brown: A Lesson in Self-Esteem
03/15/09; Mickey Rourke is Still the Winner! 02/24/09;
Materialism Gone Wild! 02/21/09; It's All About Self Esteem 02/12/09;
It's a Done Deal: President Barack Obama 02/07/09; The Miracle of Flight 1549
01/18/09; Do We Live One or Multiple Lives? The Case for Reincarnation 05/31/08;
The Right to Write What I Wrote 03/17/08; Divine Guidance
02/02/08; Paul Potts' Inspirational
Story 01/08/08; Another Link in the Chain of Purpose 11/014/08;
What is Our Purpose in Life? 11/14/08.
Scroll down to find title of interest, or click on title according
to date below.
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5/28/2009
THE ADAM LAMBERT AND CHRIS ALLEN DEBACLE I had promised myself I would not utter one word about what I now call the
American Idol debacle. Okay, I lied. I just have to weigh in on the amazing finish to the contest this year. And, by amazing
finish, I mean that Chris Allen won and Adam Lambert lost.
Now, I understand that all musical tastes aren't the
same, but even if you don't like rock music, Adam demonstrated that he could sing all genres of music equally well. When
I heard him sing "Tracks of My Tears", a Smoky Robinson number one night, and "Play That Funky Thing White
Boy" the next, both with equally incredible perfection, I knew I was hearing the individual that should walk away the
winner.
Yes, I was and am a huge fan of Adam Lambert. He is one of, if not the most
exciting contestant ever to step on the American Idol stage. That he didn't win (which I suspected he wouldn't), tells
me that although we have our first African American president, America is still unwilling to accept someone considered
different.
And Adam is definitely different. His style is out there: black painted fingernails,
dark mascara, spiked and dyed hair, and what has been described as a confident swagger.
Second, there has been
a lot of discussion about his sexual orientation. Is he, or isn't he? It's a singing contest!!! Shouldn't that have
been irrelevant? I'm a heterosexual, and I would have no difficulty buying his music. What he does in his private life
is none of my business. I leave those types of judgements up to the one who's qualified to deal with them ... our
Father.
It was said that Chris Allen's minister tweeted that everyone should vote for Chris because a
Christian was needed as the winner.
So, is Adam an atheist, or an agnostic? I had never heard that.
And, even if he was, doesn't it seem uncharitable for a minister to campaign so vigorously for one young man against another
when they're both trying to establish themselves in a difficult industry. Besides, I'm a Christian, and I don't believe that
a young man trying to realize his dreams should be punished if his religious beliefs differ from my own. A true Christian
understands we're all God's children.
Then, to top it all off, we find out that AT&T stacked the deck against
Adam by showing customers how to text 1 vote for Chris Allen that would count for 10.
All of this makes
me very sad. It says that if you're different in this society, you're unacceptable, and will be punished, if
in no other way than by non-support; which in this case was in all probability assurance of a loss.
I have nothing
against Chris, and he's certainly not responsible for the actions of others, but I feel his win is tainted.
I wish both of them well, but for Adam, I especially hope that this turn of events doesn't dim his brilliant
light. I hope that he will go on and be all he has it in him to be; I hope that the desire that I sensed in
him to be so much more than "ordinary" continues to burn in his belly, and that one day he will be one of this
country's, and the world's biggest and brightest stars.
11:32 pm cdt
5/15/2009
WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHERThere was a story on one of the morning shows yesterday and again today
about a dog that was hit by a car, and was being protected by a second dog.
Today, there was more information about
what had happened. Two dogs had apparently gotten out of their yard, and run off, probably to have a wild time on the
town. Unfortunately before long, one of the dogs was hit by a car, and lay sprawled in the street. The second dog did
not leave the injured dog's side, protecting it from cars in the street, and from police officers when they arrived on
the scene and tried to help. Whenever the officers got too close, the dog would raise a big fuss.
I simply love those policemen for not forcing the issue, but treating the situation with sensitivity. They were finally
able to get to the dog, and take it for medical attention, at which time the second dog left, presumably heading
home.
Yesterday, we didn't know the relationship of the two dogs; today we discovered the dog that was hit
was the mother of the dog protecting her. Doesn't that seem human? And by the way, she survived.
This isn't
the first time I've seen animals behave this way. When I was a resident of St. Thomas, I was on my way to work one morning,
and passed two Iguanas in the very same situation. One had been hit by a car, and the other was sitting with it by the side
of the road; only in this case, it was more of a death watch. You could see the Iguana struggling for each breath, and it
was obvious it was badly hurt. It was an awful sight.
I saw other motorists looking at this poignant scene and
knew I wasn't the only one to call the Humane Society to ask for help. Well, things don't work in the islands
the way they do on the mainland, and when I passed late that afternoon the Iguanas were still there. The one
stricken was still struggling for each breath. I was afraid to approach them because Iguanas will fight. Their weapon
is their tail.
I went on home, but I couldn't focus on anything, so a couple of hours later, I went back
to check on them. It was over. Only the one Iguana remained, and it was no longer struggling for breath. It was dead.
The one that had sat with it all day had now left. It had stayed by the side of its friend or relative until the very end. What more powerful demonstration that all God's creatures are viable, precious, and have
feelings than these two amazing acts of love.
9:40 pm cdt
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